i had been doing really good, everything was going good, great even, all falling into place, getting over the loss of my marriage becoming a stronger person, a better person, then I start to find out who my real friends are, and suddenly all the people I thought I could count on have left me.... so the circle of friends just got significantly smaller, but I guess it good in a way. so weed out the ones who should not be there, but it doesn't make it any less hurtful or disappointing..... I know that I just have to get over it and move on, but it seems like that's all I have been doing lately, perhaps its true that I am better off alone........